Welcome ... I’ve always been more attracted to the ordinary than the spectacular. For a long time I’ve sensed my ministry in life as continually trying to seek and understand, express and share, an awareness and appreciation of God in the everyday. I think this is important, not only for the sake of my own taste, but for everyone. If our talking about, and living for, God only appeals to the religious, then most people will be missed. If we know anything about Jesus it is that he went out of his way to encompass the ordinary, so that no-one would be overlooked. So, as I write here, I’ve no idea what I will say or where it will lead. No doubt I will reflect a lot on ‘Christian’ things, but I’m not particularly interested in narrowly religious questions, nor about church affairs. There will, probably, be much football, film and TV. An ordinary life indeed, but one looking for ‘rumours of glory’, I’m asking myself the questions I’ve listed above, and invite you to do the same…

Friday, 20 September 2013

'What Remains' ... when everyone’s gone.


Another BBC drama series has recently ended.  ‘What Remains’, a slow moving yet haunting and atmospheric thriller set in a large shared house, finished with a climax full of tension, surprises and not a little blood.  Revolving around the mysterious death of a young, single women who occupied the top floor flat some years earlier, the idea of what it meant to be alone dominated from the off. How can it be that no one would report, or even seemingly notice, the absence of a friendly, pleasant, ordinary young woman for all that time?


As suspicion fell on the occupants of the other flats their stories emerged too.  A bachelor, nearing retirement from his teaching career, anxious as to who might care for him in the future, jealous of the stronger pull of ‘family’ even on those he had come to call ‘friends’.  A young couple, expecting their first child, wondering whether this new bond will bring them closer together or expose the distance between them.   A father and son, struggling in the aftermath of the break-up of their family, feeling the pain of guilt and anger and struggling to start again, increasing suspicious of each other.  A lesbian couple, one pathologically obsessive and insecure, needing yet smothering the other who, in turn, is vulnerable yet trapped.  And then the detective, Len, , recently retired but unable to shake off the routine and familiarity of the workplace, drawn to this case, these people, as he continues to mourn his wife, care for his dying brother and wonder what his future might look like.

I won’t divulge any potential plot spoilers, aside from noting that, on reflection, the brief introductions above may have been a tad over-sympathetic and suggest a group of characters who, although flawed, you might actually want to live with.  If that’s the case I would warn you not to rush off to the estate agency too quickly.  However, it did strike me that all these characters, whether living on their own or not, were profoundly isolated.  For some their loneliness was obvious and apparent, for others internalised and hidden, yet none the less painful for that.  The series was dark and brutal, unsettling and disturbing, thankfully it was also pretty far removed from most of our experience of life, and house-sharing, that’s why we can permit ourselves the luxury of enjoying such stories as entertainment.  At the end though, the very last words of the concluding episode found a central character bleeding to death in a hallway as the emergency service banged on the door.  As a comforting friend went to open the door they were pulled back, ‘Don’t go ... I don’t want to be alone.’  As the credits rolled I couldn’t help thinking that there was a sentiment that  was very close to all our lives, and one that we struggle with more often than we might admit even in our everyday relatively drama-less experience.